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I've been hooking up a lot lately. Yay! But I have a problem. I'm a squirter... I always have to fake it because I don't want to get anyones shit messy. And I'm way to scared to tell the boy pleasuring me. I think he is starting to get suspicious. And I'm getting sick of almost making it to my big O but having to stop myself. What ever should I do!?
Honestly, I think that you should tell the guy. Most guys think that’s amazing! Not only is it kind of fascinating, they will hold themselves responsible and feel so proud. Definitely an ego boost for him! If he doesn’t dig it, ditch him; there are tons of guys who will appreciate and take advantage of your gift, I promise. |
Sexual Healing.
The human body is an art form. This blog may be a little sexual, but it's mostly just nice to look at. If you're looking for raunchy, hardcore porn, you've come to the wrong place.
I can try and help you if you need advice, but keep in mind, I'm not an expert. Tasteful submissions are welcome.
If you know me in real life, please stop mentioning this. It's just the internet.
I do not own any of these images.
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Why do I feel guilty when I masturbate? It is preventing me from getting my O. How do I kick the guilt?
Masturbation is a natural thing. You shouldn’t be ashamed of something that allows you to be intimate with yourself, make you feel good, and become comfortable and familiar with your body. |
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do you consider yourself an expert??? some of your tips are redeculous
It literally says in my info, word for word, ” I can try and help you if you need advice, but keep in mind, I’m not an expert.” Most of my advice comes from personal experiences, stories from pretty experienced people around me, and things such as Cosmo which I trust for most things. I’m just trying to help people any way I can, so if you don’t like it, don’t ask me for my opinion and don’t take my advice. AND, you’re ridiculous for spelling ridiculous, “redeculous”. |
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How old were you when you first had sex? I feel weird being 17 (almost) and never been kissed! Feel like a sad loser.
Don’t feel weird! Everyone is different! I lost my virginity at 17, but I lost it to someone that I love and am in a serious relationship with. I honestly wish I saved my first kiss for someone whom I truly cared about as well. Don’t give in to any kind of social pressure, do what feels right for YOU. |
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how many is too many sexual partners??
Only you can decide that number. If you’re being safe and not resorting to sex as a self harming act, then you shouldn’t be worried. Keep in mind however that the average person has 6 sexual partners in their lifetime. |
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I am quite a sexual being, mentally and physically, but when it comes to sexual intercourse and receiving oral sex I am often left disappointed and do not reach orgasm. I just need to know if that's normal..
Do you orgasm by yourself? If you do, try showing your partner what you do to try to get the same effect. Some people are clueless and truly need pointers when it comes to pleasing their partner. Also, a lot of it could have something to do with your age and your gender. Typically, it is easier for men to orgasm and some women cannot orgasm until their 20’s. Give your partner some pointers and give yourself some time! I hope that helps! |
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does semen taste bad?? im afraid to give a blowie because i think ill throw up from the taste
Well, it doesn’t taste good. :P If you think you’re going to throw up, don’t do it. There’s no better way to turn a guy off than throwing up. |
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what's the best way to start getting turned on without starting foreplay if that makes sense?
Without mutual masturbation and oral sex and such? If that’s what you mean, then kissing someone’s neck, heavy breathing close to their ear, playful and teasing words being whispered, brushing their junk “accidentally”, hugging them from behind, “wrestling”, etc. should all do the trick. What physical things can someone do to turn you on (that aren’t considered foreplay)? Tell us here. |
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how many followers does this blog have?
Seven hundred and seventeen, lovely followers. |
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i want my guy to talk dirty but i dont know how to approch that
Well, maybe next time you get intimate, try talking dirty to him and see if he catches on. It might take a direct, “Talk dirty to me.” to get him started. Don’t get discouraged if he doesn’t do it right away. Most people are clueless about how to talk dirty, without feeling like a porn. Here are a few links that may help some of those people, and hopefully will help you and your boy! Basics-http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_250/288_love_tip.html Sexy on the verge of dirty - http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-talk-dirty Moderate to Dirty (Some of these are plain silly.) - http://www.sexcigarsbooze.com/2010/06/how-to-talk-dirty-50-examples-that-will-make-you-blush/ |
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some place youd like to have sex but havent
In some sort of water, like an ocean or pool or something. I think it’s just appealing because of the movement. |
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I've been with my boyfriend for 11 months now and we've only had sex once. I took his virginity 5 months into the relationship and he when I address the problem or bring it up in out conversations he plays it off like its funny jokingly telling to ''be patient'' or to not ''get ahead of my self.'' I haven't cheated on him but what should I do, doesn't having a significant other mean you don't have to pleasure yourself anymore.
Hm. Well if you’ve tried talking about it and he plays it off like a joke, confront the joke. Tell him it’s not funny and that you want to have a serious conversation about it. At 11 months I think that he should be more than willing to listen to you and work things out. Also consider that first times are usually somewhat awkward if not completely awful, so maybe he thinks every time is going to be like that. Encourage him and tell him WHY you want to have sex. Being intimate with a person is about more than just the physical stuff and you should remind him of that. AND, last but not least, having a significant other does not mean you don’t have to pleasure yourself anymore. Masturbation is like me time for a lot of people. Don’t think of it as a chore. |
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I just found out the boy I dig smokes. I think its kind of gross, any tips for staying attracted to him or ignoring it or learning to love it or really anything? I'm not judgmental enough to ditch him because he smokes. He is so lovely. LOVE your blog by the way.
First off, thank you! I’m glad you enjoy the blog! Now, if he smokes and you like him, you may have to get past it. I know smoking can be a turn off for a lot of people, but unless you’re in a relationship with him, you’re in no place to ask him to stop. You could talk to him about it and see what he has to say about it. If eventually you guys become more than just friends, you can definitely ask him to stop, but if he won’t it may be a flaw you either have to learn to love or leave. |
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so im into rough sex. i know this for a fact. im 19 and so is my bf. im not sure whether hes into it because he says he likes it and he always comes faster when he gives it to me rough, but most of the time he wont be rough. the other day when he was drunk he said he as worried because he thought he wasnt dirty enough for me and that hes too young to be rough. i understand if hes not into it but i cant really tell. i want more rough sex, any suggestions? also what do you think im too young means
Well, if you know what you like, yet your boyfriend is scared that he’s not doing what you like, talk about it. I firmly believe that communication helps in most situations, and this is definitely one of them. I’m not really sure what he means by saying he’s too young to be rough, but maybe suggesting things that appeal to you would help. Maybe you can go easier on him until he adjusts to the idea. I know many men are worried about being too aggressive and hurting their girls, so maybe that’s the problem. Talk it out and let me know if that helps. |
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for that anon, i tried anal sex with my bf and he loved it, me not so much. its just so weird and strange and the whole time your paranoid about something going wrong. it can also hurt too if he gets too excited and goes to hard. some of my friends love it though, i think it just depends on both the giver and the reciever
^ I hope that helps you a little bit. |