21 May 12 at 2 am

Asked by Anonymous

asker Why do I feel guilty when I masturbate? It is preventing me from getting my O. How do I kick the guilt?

Masturbation is a natural thing. You shouldn’t be ashamed of something that allows you to be intimate with yourself, make you feel good, and become comfortable and familiar with your body.
Try relaxing a bit before you do or make it a ritual; a normal behavior that you use as ”me time”. The more normal you allow the process to be, the more normal you’ll feel doing it.

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15 May 12 at 9 pm

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11 May 12 at 1 am

Asked by Anonymous

asker i want my guy to talk dirty but i dont know how to approch that

Well, maybe next time you get intimate, try talking dirty to him and see if he catches on. It might take a direct, “Talk dirty to me.” to get him started. Don’t get discouraged if he doesn’t do it right away. Most people are clueless about how to talk dirty, without feeling like a porn. 

Here are a few links that may help some of those people, and hopefully will help you and your boy! 

Basics-http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_250/288_love_tip.html

Sexy on the verge of dirty - http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/how-to-talk-dirty

Moderate to Dirty (Some of these are plain silly.) - http://www.sexcigarsbooze.com/2010/06/how-to-talk-dirty-50-examples-that-will-make-you-blush/

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09 May 12 at 4 pm

Ha. 

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Ha. 
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27 Apr 12 at 12 am

Asked by Anonymous

asker Any tips on subtly turning a guy on? For instance I know if someone makes a slightly dirty joke it gets my mind going. I guess I want to make it seem unintentional.

Mentioning something about your underwear or a shower, even in the least dirty way, gets them thinking about; That’s always an option. Cosmo also suggests that around edges of his lips (which have pleasure receptors) is a place to touch to get him aroused, so brushing “something” off of his lips is kind of a subtle way to do that. Other sweet spots that you could try for are the sides of his torso, the knob at the base of the spine, and the top of his inner thigh. Finding a way to brush those parts of his body is going to be the key here, but your access kind of depends on the situation and your relationship.

Guys, all of these so called “sweet spots” work on girls too, so you can try them as well! 

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27 Apr 12 at 12 am

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tags: tips  tricks  cosmo  body  language  sex  passion  love  intimacy 
Body language tips.

Only a clitoral one. 

You learn something new every day.

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08 Apr 12 at 6 am

Every man needs to learn this. Every woman as well. Being a tease is all in good fun and calls for some GREAT sex. 

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Every man needs to learn this. Every woman as well. Being a tease is all in good fun and calls for some GREAT sex. 
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01 Feb 12 at 7 pm

Asked by Anonymous

tags: asked  tips 
asker I know this might seem raunchy, but I don't want it to be nor do I expect my answer to be. i want to have sex in new ways with my boyfriend. it isnt "boring" but we've done a lot and i want to spice it up. any suggestions?

Look at this link. http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/ Cosmo is notorious for their sex tips and most of them are easy and will give you the right amount of change. I hope that helps!

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16 Jan 12 at 8 pm
tags: tips  movie  documentary  sex 

check out Let’s Talk About Sex. It’s on Netflix and it’s honestly really interesting and will give you a lot of necessary information about sex. 

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16 Jan 12 at 6 pm

Asked by Anonymous

tags: asked  tips 
asker well me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile and he can never make me orgasm. it feels so good and everything but if he fingers me for too long i start to get irritated and i get swollen and dry and it starts to hurt. but some times it feels so good and i think im going to have an orgasm but i never do. im 16 and is it possible that i cant have one because of my age ..?

Your age could have something to with it. Some women don’t orgasm until their 20’s, so when it comes to that, you shouldn’t be worried. 
But if what he’s doing starts to irritate you after too long, tell him! Lubricant could help, as could switching it up with something like oral sex. Masturbation could also help, since you become more comfortable and familiar with your body and what feels good. 

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05 Dec 11 at 8 pm

damnlina:

I think people forget how to show affection and appreciation for their partner; I think time has a way of eliminating simple things that make people fall in love in the first place.

Gentlemen, please remember to show your girl how much you care; tell her she’s beautiful, tell her you love her,…

Find a quiet place,: I think people forget how to show affection and appreciation for their...
Some new ideas for the bedroom. (;